Rejection letters make no one giddy with joy, but most of us get far more than we could possibly, ever want. Most of us. Actually, I've been told that Paula Danzinger sold her first book without a single rejection. And I sold my first magazine article without a single rejection. It was for a magazine I had read many times so I wrote an article, had a friend shoot photos to go with it, and mailed it off (without ever reading the writer's guidelines) and they bought it and paid me over $1000. I thought I was God's gift to magazine writing. I thought I had it made. I was so wrong.
Over the years I've been writing, I've had lots of rejection letters. I've had form letters. I've had notes scribbled on form letters. I've had notes scribbled on my cover letter. I've had email rejections. I've had long detailed rejection letters - one of the editors who read a picture book manuscript of mine hated it. Hated it. He wrote a long detailed letter about how much he hated it. It actually made me laugh. I see that editor at conferences sometimes and always think of him as the guy enraged by my picture book. That's got to be a point of some pride. Note: Be extremely careful when wishing an editor would tell you why they reject something - someone just might do it.
Rejection letters all have one thing in common. They really have nothing to do with me personally. I don't get rejection letter because I stink as a writer. I don't get rejection letters because I'm chubby or near-sighted or laugh too much. I get rejection letters because the product I produce (a manuscript) doesn't meet the needs and desires of specific people and publishers. They aren't rejecting my full body of work. They aren't rejecting my personality. They are rejecting a single manuscript for reasons that might be more personal than professional (such as in the instance of the editor cited above - the same manuscript that he waxed so poetic about hating went to acquisitions meetings and landed me an agent. But it rubbed that one editor firmly the wrong way.) Because rejections are about specific manuscripts in specific situations, they tend to happen to everyone. On her online journal, Jane Yolen often mentions her rejections. She doesn't like them either, but she gets them with some regularity despite being an exceptionally fine writer.
Actually, rejection letters have something else in common - you are very limited in your ability to control them. You can do certain things to lessen the odds of getting one:
1. Study the market and send only material that you have good reason to believe will fit it.
2. Study your craft and send no manuscript out until you are firmly convinced it is the very best work you can produce. That includes typos and format - if you don't pay attention to the little things, you may have missed some of the big ones too.
3. Bring in fresh eyes. Writers are hampered by knowing exactly what they meant to say - this can make them blind to whether or not they actually said it clearly and concisely. This makes a second pair of eyes so valuable. A fresh reader can tell you where you create questions and confusion - and you can fix it before you mail.
4. Read every manuscript out loud. Euphony makes a huge difference in sales. Even though books and magazine stories/articles for older kids are usually NOT read aloud, it should still be so smoothly written that it could be. It should make a kind of metrical music in the mind of the reader. And you can make certain it does by reading your manuscript aloud (or better yet, having someone read it to you) and smoothing the rough spots.
Still, even if I do all that I can do - I cannot force editors to buy my work. I cannot make a publisher slip one more story into their magazine or one more book into their spring line-up. I can listen to advice the editors offer, when they offer it. I can consider it and make revisions based on it. But I cannot make rejections go away. If I could, I would have no rejections.
Rejections are not proof that you cannot write and they signify failure ONLY if you let them make you quit writing and submitting. They are only proof that this is a difficult profession we've chosen and filled with challenges. We can't change the challenges, but we can change how we meet them. Think about what great books would be lost forever if these writers allowed rejection to derail them -
Dr. Seuss received many rejections (I found numbers from 27 to 70 cited online) before his first book was published.
Jack London had over 200 rejections before he made his first sale.
Madeleine L'Engle's A Wrinkle in Time collected many rejections (I found numbers from 29 - 45 cited online) before it was published.
David Lubar collected about 100 rejections before he ever sold anything.
In an interview with Cynthia Leitich Smith, Gail Carson Levine says, "It took me nine years to get anything published. At the beginning I mostly wrote picture books, which were rejected by every children's book publisher in America…. Nowadays, when I visit schools, I often read my worst rejection letter to the kids. That letter, which made me miserable at the time, no longer has the power to hurt me. Nowadays, it's now a prized possession, a symbol for never giving up."
So can you meet rejection letters - by renewing your commitment to become better writers every day through reading good published work for children and by writing and writing and writing and writing and reading some more. And by refusing to give up.
Tim Allen in Galaxy Quest had it right: "Never give up. Never surrender."
